{"id":10477,"date":"2024-06-26T10:53:31","date_gmt":"2024-06-26T14:53:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.responsibility.org\/?page_id=10477"},"modified":"2025-03-14T15:06:28","modified_gmt":"2025-03-14T19:06:28","slug":"conversation-starters","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.responsibility.org\/prevent-underage-drinking\/conversation-starters\/","title":{"rendered":"Conversation Starters"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Our research shows that when conversations between parents and kids about alcohol go up, underage drinking rates go down. <\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>Since 2003, conversations between parents and kids have increased&nbsp;31%. 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Starting these conversations early and revisiting them regularly helps to foster a trusting relationship, ensuring that children feel comfortable seeking guidance and support as they navigate social situations involving alcohol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Conversations starters may include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-4c870b4a\"><h6 class=\"uagb-heading-text\"><strong>Using relevant articles about other teens: <\/strong><\/h6><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;I read an article about teens and alcohol recently. What have you heard about drinking from your friends or at school?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-5496c31c\"><h6 class=\"uagb-heading-text\"><strong>Addressing current events:<\/strong><\/h6><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI saw that XYZ was in the news for public intoxication. Did you see that? 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