{"id":8834,"date":"2024-05-08T16:47:54","date_gmt":"2024-05-08T16:47:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.responsibility.org\/?page_id=8834"},"modified":"2025-04-17T10:10:35","modified_gmt":"2025-04-17T14:10:35","slug":"talking-to-tweens-and-teens","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.responsibility.org\/prevent-underage-drinking\/talking-to-tweens-and-teens\/","title":{"rendered":"Reaching Middle Schoolers"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-image aligncenter uagb-block-9637f5bc wp-block-uagb-image--layout-default wp-block-uagb-image--effect-static wp-block-uagb-image--align-center\"><figure class=\"wp-block-uagb-image__figure\"><img decoding=\"async\"  sizes=\"(max-width: 480px) 150px\" src=\"https:\/\/www.responsibility.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/kids.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"388\" height=\"158\" title=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" role=\"img\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The number of teens who report they have consumed alcohol has decreased 55% proportionally from 1991 to 2023\u202f(<em>Source: Monitoring the Future, January 2024<\/em>).\u202f<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The more we normalize that kids are NOT drinking, the easier it will be for them to say \u201cNO.\u201d<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>As kids grow and mature, their curiosity grows and matures along with them. Therefore, the conversations at home and the lessons in school should meet them where they are. This is a time of change for all adolescents. They are transitioning from kids into young adults. Their bodies are in a season of growth, their friendships may change and their exposure to risk will also increase. Conversations are key to keeping kids informed, empowered, and engaged. Parents, caregivers and educators who encourage conversations with youth establish themselves as trusted adults. These conversations\u2014in addition to the modeling of responsible behaviors\u2014make a difference. It is natural for kids to take risks and face peer pressure. It is up to the trusted adults in their lives to guide them in making smart decisions, including staying alcohol-free.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not all adults feel prepared to have these conversations. That is where <em>Ask, Listen, Learn: Kids and Alcohol Don\u2019t Mix<\/em> comes in handy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-1 wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-text-align-center wp-element-button\" href=\"http:\/\/www.asklistenlearn.org\">ACCESS <em>ASK, LISTEN, LEARN<\/em><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsibility.org, alongside a team of educators and organizations specializing in elementary- and middle-schoolers, developed <a href=\"http:\/\/www.asklistenlearn.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Ask, Listen, Learn: Kids and Alcohol Don\u2019t Mix<\/em><\/a>. \u202f<em>Ask, Listen, Learn<\/em> is a completely FREE digital underage drinking prevention program for kids ages 9-13 (grades 4-8) and their parents and educators with the goal to reduce underage drinking. The program focuses on the developing brain and empowers kids to say \u201cYES\u201d to a healthy lifestyle and \u201cNO\u201d to underage drinking.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The information provided throughout the program guides adults with ways to start communicating with kids about the dangers of underage drinking\u2013 and how to continue talking to them as part of a lifetime of conversations. Both science and\u202f<a href=\"https:\/\/asklistenlearn.org\/program-evaluation-1\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">evidence-based<\/a>, <em>Ask, Listen, Learn<\/em>\u202fis the most widely distributed underage drinking program of its kind.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>FOR EDUCATORS<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Ask, Listen, Learn<\/em>\u202ffeatures a series of seven videos and lesson plans focused on the effects of alcohol on the developing brain for educators teaching grades 4-8. These lessons are proven to increase kids\u2019 knowledge of the developing brain and to empower them to make good decisions about saying \u201cNO\u201d to underage drinking now and make informed decisions about alcohol in the future.\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-2 wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/asklistenlearn.org\/teachers\/teaching-effects-alcohol-brain\/\">ACCESS THE <em>ASK, LISTEN, LEARN<\/em> CURRICULUM<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:21px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>The <em>Ask, Listen, Learn<\/em>\u202fcurriculum is fully digital and consists of animated videos and corresponding downloadable lesson plans that teach kids\u202f<strong>what the brain does, what alcohol does to it, and what that does to them.<\/strong>\u202fThe program is easily implemented into any classroom\u2014and the accompanying activities and games keep kids engaged as they learn. The program helps teachers, school counselors, and school nurses teach kids the value in saying \u201cYES\u201d to a healthy lifestyle and \u201cNO\u201d to underage drinking through basic neuroscience and skills-based learning.\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prevention education is also dependent on the social development&nbsp;of students. <em>Ask, Listen, Learn<\/em> also includes supplementary lessons and activities that focus on the skills and foundations that kids need&nbsp;in order to&nbsp;find balance and to support their mental health&nbsp;including:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>healthy decision-making<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>self-advocacy<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>refusal strategies, and<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>goal setting.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsibility.org partners with Discovery Education to assist in the creation of these skills-based resources.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>FOR PARENTS &amp; CAREGIVERS<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Ask, Listen, Learn<\/em>\u202fhas resources to support communication between kids and their parents about saying \u201cNO\u201d to underage drinking as well. Through online resources like vibrant&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/asklistenlearn.org\/materials\/building-communication-for-a-healthy-lifestyle\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">infographics<\/a>, conversation starters, blog posts, an&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.asklistenlearn.org\/contact\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">active email community<\/a>, and active social media channels,\u202f<em>Ask, Listen, Learn<\/em>\u202fhelps to guide adults on ways to start conversations about alcohol and the developing brain now, and continue them as their kids grow and change.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Marking the 20th&nbsp;anniversary of the&nbsp;<em>Ask, Listen, Learn<\/em>&nbsp;program, we conducted a study among parents and their kids. The&nbsp;survey is part of\u202fResponsibility.org&#8217;s ongoing efforts to empower parents and kids with the resources they need to have meaningful and effective conversations around underage drinking, substance use, and mental health issues so that they make healthy and responsible choices. The&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/asklistenlearn.org\/materials\/caregivers-dont-underestimate-the-power-of-conversations\/?lessonplan=Parents\">results are encouraging<\/a>, and they indicate that prevention and wellness conversations have increased over the last two decades and continue to be critical in keeping kids substance-free. Some of the findings include:&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kids report their parents as the number one (33%) influence on their decision to drink or not drink alcohol, followed by best friends (25%), and social media (17%).&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>93% of parents have talked to their kids at least once in the past year about alcohol consumption.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>91% of kids have talked with their parents or another caregiver about the dangers of drinking alcohol.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>One in 3 youth say they are worried about illegal drugs and overdoses (38%), underage drinking (38%), and underage cannabis use (34%), with 55% of kids reporting that they think they will be faced with the decision to drink alcohol underage within the next year.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>RESPONDING TO OUR COMMUNITY<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>As a leader in prevention education,&nbsp;Responsibility.org has always worked closely with educators and parents to learn more about the resources they need to help kids make healthy decisions. In a survey of nearly 500 teachers and parents, 92% of respondents asked for resources focused on cannabis. Therefore, in 2020,&nbsp;<em>Ask, Listen, Learn<\/em>&nbsp;launched a new unit to its underage drinking prevention curriculum, focused on the effects of cannabis on the developing brain.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The module\u2014similar to the seven existing lesson plans about alcohol and the developing brain\u2014includes a brief, two-minute video with information on the endocannabinoid system, how the brain and body process and breakdown cannabis, and how the developing brains and bodies of underage users react and are affected by it. This new module includes information for educators and parents to educate themselves about the effects of cannabis on the developing brain so that conversations with their students and kids can be fact-based and effective in helping kids refuse underage cannabis use.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kids don\u2019t learn in a vacuum \u2013 they\u2019re faced with decisions about more than one challenge at a time, and they need to have resources to make the best choices they can. From discussions about drinking alcohol, to the impacts of cannabis on a developing brain, to getting enough sleep, adults must help guide their kids and students by having conversations and providing factual information.&nbsp;<em>Ask, Listen, Learn&nbsp;<\/em>provides tools and resources for parents and educators to do just that.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Our research&nbsp;indicates&nbsp;that when conversations&nbsp;about alcohol&nbsp;take place,&nbsp;families also&nbsp;discuss the following:&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What else are parents talking about?<\/strong><br>Cannabis (55%)<br>Tobacco (54%)<br>Healthy friendships\/Relationships (53%)<br>Sex (52%)<br>Mental Health and Well-being (52%)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What else are kids talking about?<\/strong><br>Cannabis (59%)<br>Peer pressure (56%)<br>Tobacco (51%)<br>Sex (50%)<br>Mental Health and Well-being (49%)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From discussions about&nbsp;underage&nbsp;drinking, to the impacts of cannabis on a developing brain,&nbsp;to&nbsp;instilling mental and well-being values and foundations,&nbsp;adults must help guide their kids and students by having conversations and&nbsp;providing&nbsp;factual information.\u202f<em>Ask, Listen,&nbsp;Learn\u202f<\/em>provides&nbsp;tools and resources for parents and educators to do just that.\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>This cannabis module\u2019s content is based on scientific information and resources from the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA). For more information on NIDA and the science of cannabis, please visit&nbsp;<\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.drugabuse.gov\/\"><em>www.drugabuse.gov<\/em><\/a><em>.<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Program content regarding the effects of alcohol on the developing brain has been reviewed by the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) and is consistent with currently available science.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left has-ast-global-color-2-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6bc39a192ec0ed583fef4310df3bcbae\">&#8220;As a member of Responsibility.org\u2019s National Advisory Board and former Administrator of the U.S. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), I believe these materials will be a tremendous support to parents and teachers. 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